RockOn,

Your kids are watching you and learning as you go through this.

What would you like them to learn about transparency and accountability?

What would you like them to learn about respecting themselves if a spouse leaves them and acts manipulatively towards them?

What would you like them to learn about how to change their lives and move themselves through a devastating crisis?

To go back seeking crumbs of connection from an unhealthy relationship?

To isolate their kids and grandparents from a shared understanding where compassion and support can follow?

Your situation will change (and can change surprisingly quickly) when you lead yourself out of it.

Not by waiting and hoping. The optimists/deniers in Stockdale's Paradox.

Your brutal reality is that your wife has chosen to leave you.

And she is not acting like a wife should in a marriage between two people.

What is your plan to unstick yourself and move on from this limbo?

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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