I have a coach. I have been doing that. Its not enough, and often at times his actions affect me so greatly. Its so difficult to do anything when I feel in limbo. I mentioned about re-doing my home office. My coach said go for it! But what if I do and H divorces me and takes the house? What the heck is the point then?
So often I try to go gave fun and he goes to 3 bars and I just can’t stop thinking and talking about it. It has ruined my time over and over lately.
Here is the thing. You can control all of that. You are letting yourself of the hook by saying *I can't help it". But yes, you can.
What if your husband instead of divorcing you died suddenly? Would you sit and never get over it? Or would you mourn the loss and then move forward?
This is really not any different. Mourn that you are losing him, then move forward.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
