I came home from my trip and of course he wasn't at home. I found out he went to the club with friends and was so drunk he couldn't drive home so he stayed the night at one of their homes. He came home at 8:50am this morning. I couldn't contain myself and was standing there when he walked in and what did he say.. did you enjoy your trip? Zero acknowledgement of him staying out all night. I started crying. He was unfriendly and even said.. I don't have time for this. Of course he called our son last night to tell him what was up, he even contacted the wife of the friend he was going to stay the night.
He said to me when I asked him why he is telling our 18 yr old son of his whereabouts and his response is that our son has made it known that he cares about him. I just don't get it.
I stated very clearly what I wanted. I said I wanted to know where he was, because I cared about him. 30 min after the conversation he knocked on my door to tell me he was going to the bank. he had to add, because he is forced to tell me. I forced him? I just responded it was his decision ot tell me or not, but that is what I want.
My only options are to leave or put up with this [censored]? Everyone says why do I allow this, why do I put up with this? What else exactly should I do? I really need a legit list of viable options. I'm exhausted and tired.
Last edited by DnJ; 12/02/2306:36 PM. Reason: Removed swear word.
H 48 W 48 S 18(still lives with us) S 29(mine) D 28 S 27(his who live out of state)
