well I haven't had him Monster in 2 months to the day till today. I called to tell him his grandmother sent me a somewhat cryptic txt that she was in an ambulance with his papa. so I called him right away to let him know and see if he had already heard. He said he was going to call her asap and hung up. i didn't want to call his grandmother and overwhelm her with calls while she was on the way. So I called back a few later to ask what all happend and if he was ok. He totally blew off his papas situation with heart failure as just short of breath. he has blown off this side of his family so bad since this has started. hence the reason his nany txt me because I am the only one that that checks on them. so he said I was calling to tell him that just so I could keep tabs on what he is doing. and not because i felt like he should know. and then said i was telling him to call her instead of calling her myself. said it was annoying and stupid to have to deal with me and he wasn't doing this anymore. I do not cal or txt him unless needed for kids or house stuff even since he moved home. he makes it know I am an annoyance when I call. so I dont. so he just screamed till he was dont and hung up. I know they come back broke and I know there is a long way to go. But I sure dont know if I will be doing this for years.
