Thriving fully back to work with a solid financial plan in place to be able to buy W out of the house. Acceptance of my singleness and the gift of celibacy. Acceptance whether I am D by then (not my hope and plan), detached from W and the M, or possibly piecing.
I want to be a man of strength and integrity and attraction. I am realizing I don’t want to attract a replacement of W or give that impression but I want to be healthy and thriving and I want my close friends and kids to know that I am ok and I will be alright.
I want to be involved in healthy ways with my kids, grandkid, friends and community.
I’m planning to talk to my parents tomorrow and open up to them so that they have some accurate info.
I want them to know that W is staying at her moms and that I am taking time to make some decisions about what is best for me and our kids. I want to tell them that my hope is that our M is restored and I am trusting God no matter what the outcome is.
I want to use language and tone with my parents that gives them hope that I and their grandkids and great grandkid will be ok and there are good plans in place.
