Broken, the thing that concerns me the most is your insistence that you "have to get your wife back".
I would be lying if I said I wasn't hoping for a turnaround, but I am not actively pursuing or showing desperation. I did initially for the two to three days following BD but I have since done a complete 180 to focus on myself. I have not contacted my wife since.
I'm also trying to make peace with recognizing that my W and our old relationship is gone forever, as much as it hurts to think about.
Originally Posted by SteveLW
Being so dependent on one person is a dangerous way to live. The reason? We live in an imperfect world. People in your life today may be gone tomorrow. Whether that's due to accident or disease, or of their own volition.
