Originally Posted by job
One more thing...this situation w/your spouse is between the two of you. Try not to involve others in the situation because, if, at some point you both opt to try again, it will make it harder for her to return if family and friends know about what is going down between the two of you.

I did kind of regret sharing all of these details with my sister and friend, but these are the two people I've confided in in this situation. Of my two sisters, this is the one who is a vault and will support any decision I make. She does believe in marriage maybe even more than me. So as mad as she is at W right now, I'd expect her to fully support any R with W down the road if it ever happened. Same with my best friend. He doesn't even have the anger at W, he's just supporting me. But I do get what you're saying and I'll be mindful sharing anything else like that with them in the future. I'll lean here first.

I'm feeling better about the picture etc already. Ready to let it go. The water still gets rocky for me from time to time, but it evens out much quicker now than it did in the beginning.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23