In my case, I know there is a third party involved, and it's all under my hat right now.
She might suspect that I know (she has done a very poor job of hiding it, like not even thinking of the most elementary precautions), but I am not giving her the reaction she might be waiting for.
My focus is on me and my future. Third party or not, that is the same. If this is to come out in the open, it will be in its good time.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023