As I've thought about this today, I'm currently leaning towards not bringing it up. Either it's just a tattoo picture that I misinterpreted and I look a little crazy or desperate. Or it's what I think it is, but she lies/deflects/makes up excuses, I still come off a little crazy. 0% chance she confesses or shows it to me again to prove anything. I'm already fairly confident there is someone else and it doesn't change anything I'm doing.

Would still like to get input if anyone has any thoughts. My sister and friend have emotional ties to the situation. My sister especially was already mad/disgusted at W before this.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23