She's testing you and you are failing. My suggestion is for you to not make anymore bold statements that you are not prepared to back-up. That just weakens your position even more.
I like this paragraph: I recognize that I bring a lot to the table in relationship and am socializing much more with friends who share my values. I am returning to my "old self" and pursuing hobbies and interests that get me excited. I am thinking about how unpleasant the last 2-3 years has been and have decided I won't accept that same life as a future for myself.
