As I regained my self confidence and got clarity on my values, I always told myself that infidelity was a deal breaker and would end the marriage, and made this clear to my W as well.
What has changed? Why is it no longer a dealbreaker?
Originally Posted by Maturin
Now that the A has been revealed - the ultimate act of disrespect - how do I maintain credibility and congruence with my communicated boundaries if I pursue any path other than D?
You can't. You just try to make changes for yourself and your children while this plays out.
Originally Posted by Maturin
It seems like she is a cake eater: having me as H for status/financial/parenting support but live like a single person on weekends. I have stated several times that this is not acceptable to me.
So what does she say when you say "this isn't acceptable to me"?
Originally Posted by Maturin
The upside is that I am rebuilding my self confidence and pursuing a deeper understanding of myself and what I want.
