The barrage keeps coming and I am having a hard time keeping up. It just doesn’t make sense to me…
What do you mean? What barrage? What do you feel you need to keep up with?
Focus on you. Keep your life on track.
Originally Posted by Rockon
When we switched back vehicles today, W let me know she’s not doing well. I asked if she wanted to talk about it and what she needed. She said she didnt want to talk.
Originally Posted by Rockon
I am trying to give lots of space.
Do or do not, there is no try.
Originally Posted by Rockon
I don’t really know how to go about this.
Focus on you. Keep your life on track. Live in the house. Pay your bills. Do your hobbies. See your friends. Live and love your life! Stay on course! Let W lay in the bed she’s made.
When W laments her lot in life, self imposed lot I might add, simply respond “I’m sorry to hear that.” And go on with your day. As you’ve seen, she doesn’t want to discuss it anyhow. Keep the pressure from you to zero. Let her feel her choices, and her own pressures. Do not attempt to fix things. You didn’t break her, therefore you cannot fix her.
Enjoy the dancing tomorrow. And happy Thanksgiving Rock.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
