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You are making this way more complicated than it needs to be.

I’ve been saying that for 12 months. So much so, that at one point I questioned if Rock was actually scamming us all.

Rockon is an addict. His kryptonite is BS interactions/communication with his crazy ex. They make him feel like he is working towards reconciliation, even though his marriage is done. Finished. Irreparable.

Coming here for “advice” (the hard stuff of which he completely ignores) allows him to disappear into a fantasy world where this marriage is worth saving.

His ex is a manipulative cheat and a liar, and their two pathologies are tragically co-dependent.

No-one could ever find happiness when they have anything to do with this woman. The only thing missing here is the emotional fortitude and self respect to know he deserves better.