Thanks for the feedback (and a laugh) Kind. Yeah, I did think "At this point, she'd probably tell me that the water I give her isn't wet enough." We can be so beat up coming into this process that resetting our understanding of what is reasonable becomes a challenge. One thing I find valuable about this forum is the ability to get feedback from uninvolved, third parties (you good folks).

R2C, I really appreciate it. Like any other test, while I don't want to take it, it feels good to pass. My goal was really one of self-evaluation so that, whatever relationships shall follow, I'm improving what I can control about my thinking and behavior. I felt good that I didn't take the bait of her emotional reactivity. Have a great day everyone.