Don’t walk. RUN, and run very fast away from this man.
I’m a big supporter of DB and marriage saving techniques where there is reason to save a marriage.
In your case, there’s simply zero reasons to save your marriage. Every day you wait you put your financial future and security further at risk.
Let me lay it out really clearly for you:
1. He is sleeping with other women, without a shadow of a doubt 2. He has forged your signature on loan documents
He has committed a crime. He should be in jail. There’s a very good chance that all the equity in your home has been wasted away at bars and strip clubs. Unbeknownst to you, you may be essentially broke. Anytime now, you can expect the bank may repossess your house.
Do nothing other than screenshot everything you can on his iPad and then make an appointment Monday morning to see a lawyer. The very first thing that the lawyer should do is contact the bank to advise there has been loan fraud, and put a hold on everything.
I’m sorry snowball. But this marriage is 100% finished for now. Try to save it at your own peril.
