yes the councilors we are seeing individual are from a va non profit. Well he was going and once he got the ptsd diagnoses his councilor left and now he hasn't gone back. they have a marriage councilor there but i am asking him if he will see us separately as well and sometimes together. I think if we go in there together right away he will take anything i say as an attack. but if anyone else says or suggests anything it is like gold to him. but if i say something he wants nothing to do with it.
