The other day W texted me about these upcoming holidays. She thought she and I had already discussed (we had not-this has been happening quite a bit where she has said we discussed such and such - no, no we haven’t). She proposed the idea of her coming over here for holiday gathering with our youngest kids and I - essentially inviting herself.
When you....... I feel..... If you..... I will...... If you continue ......
Or
I believe it is best ........
Has she came back begging and crying for you to take her back with true remorse? Until she does, you need to completely focus on DBing rules. You are making this way more complicated than it needs to be.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
