You have stated good reasons to approach this decision and others thoughtfully. Bring strength and conviction in following what aligns with your values.
I can relate. In my case, I have declined invites this year now W and her family. It went against my instincts but is now my norm.
The other day W texted me about these upcoming holidays. She wondered if we had already discussed (we had not). She proposed the idea of her coming over here.
I haven’t responded yet.
I need to plan the holiday season for me and my kids. My needs and well-being through the holidays while returning to work and going through what I am need to have a place of priority not to be overshadowed in flash or appearance or accommodation or unaffordable expense.
I plan to make to simple. Ask my kids what they would most value. Make special times with my extended family.
