Believe her! This is what all these situations are about. The rest is all how deep you want to go. If you want to get hung up in the MLC world you will get stuck for years. She lost attraction for you from probably the 1000 little things you did over the years. So you can A. Learn from it (read books on what women are attracted to), self improvement, etc. and move on or B. be stuck in forever limbo hoping she has a change of heart. The choice is yours and you only live once so choose carefully.
Yes, exactly, I agree completely. She's clearly having an MLC. Even her sister told me so in confidence, as part of her efforts to give me support in this situation. I've mentioned before that her family has always been kind of my "fan club".
Your observation is why I want to maintain friendship with her but am not trying to re-start our traditional marriage relationship. However I am taking it as a challenge to be the "best version of me" as a result of this. Part of my plan is to designed to give me more confidence from feeling more attractive. And other goals are to pursue adventures I've been putting off.
I'm not trying to win her back. But I admit that I'd feel some satisfaction if I sensed her attraction to me increased as a result of my self-improvement journey. At least it might enable our future relationship to be more amicable and devoid of stress.
