I'm also glad you stood your ground about having S1 stay with you for Thanksgiving. You've been fired as a H so there is no leverage there to push you into caving in.
I always think of the "you have no power here" meme from Lord of the Rings when it comes to my ex's. What are you going to do, withhold sex? Sit angrily on the couch (while I'm at my house on mine)?
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
