It's been a while but I believe I read the one I linked plus one or two others from SM34. Should I dig deeper into those?
I always recommend going back and reading old threads that speak to you.
SM"s threads were interesting for several reasons.
The advice there was amazing from some prolific posters from the past. Starsky, MrBond, 25, Cat04, and several others that I can't remember right off hand.
And anytime that I can read something from Starsky....
Welp...for me....he is certainly in the running for being on the Mt Rushmore of DBing.
R2C ??
I would advise when you read them, the same as SM went through though...
That although SSRI can certainly affect people, they aren't the only cause of a marriage failing.
It became easy for SM to blame something other than himself for some major failures in communication styles, and some behavioral patterns that he had developed over the years.
He thought that by blaming SSRI's, that it let him off the hook for shortcomings in those areas.
As for now...
I kinda feel like you are sitting on both sides of the fence with your marriage. That if it's convenient, and works out fairly easy, then you would be all in....
Yet if it gets too hard, then you are willing to walk away from it.
And that's not a slight at all. A lot of posters have fallen into that category for me.
So where do you stand with it all today ???
What does Divorce Busting mean to you ???
And I'm only asking because I want to know how to post to you.
