Divorce busting, in the context of saving yourself, is learning that you deserve so much better than this selfish POS person.
Quite often, love is like an addiction. We keep going back to try and make it work because it makes us feel good to keep things the same, but what we’re really doing is continuing to go back to something dangerous and unhealthy.
The thought of my ex suddenly flipping the script and saying she wants back in makes me feel physically sick. While we have kids together and we need to co-parent, I want nothing to do with her whatsoever beyond that.
I don’t really understand people who say they love who their ex “used to be”. That’s not the definition of love - love is accepting someone completely, with all their flaws. You can’t love who someone used to be 10 years ago, because that person wasn’t really there and has shown their true colours.
Time to move on, knowing that you’re better off without this bad addiction!
