So I have read in hearts blessing that the ap will normally stick around in the background for a while. I do believe my husband is in the withdraw stage. what is ya'lls opinion in handling this. He doesn't work with her anymore and he has moved home so I know there is still talking and txting going on. I am trying to pretend I don' know but I don't know if that is the right thing to do ore not. we have not fought in a month after him moving back and he is doing kinder stuff little by little but it is hard for me to even act normal and want to engage in anything with him when she is still around.