There are times when this DB/relationship/custody crap goes right out the window.
Letting go....truly forgiving....operating from your core values...always doing the right thing...getting your beliefs/thoughts/actions/body language/facial expressions/tone/inflections/words all in alignment all takes work and time.
Keep reflecting on who you want to be and how you want to behave.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712