Rejoice, you did the inner work, asked those tough questions of self, and discovered you. That’s always a success!
Your journey encompasses many DBing principles. However, one principle springs to mind rather quickly: Do more of what works, and less of what doesn’t. A simple and yet often overlooked truth, which you kept sight of. In the upcoming months and years continue to keep that in mind.
Be patient, rebuilding/piecing is difficult, and so worth it. Keep doing what works.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
