Hi Rock

Where is the car parked? Who has the keys?

I’m guessing the jointly owned car is at home, not at her Mom’s. And that you have the keys at home as well. You have care and control of the car. Let son drive it.

W’s childish temper tantrum of not letting S25 use the car because he won’t talk to her, is just that - childish! Pay it no heed.

The rest of her rant. Say nothing. Your best move in her game, is to not play.

If W changes the financial status quo, then you’ll need to respond. Right now, W is venting, and not much constructive is being proposed.

Go outside and enjoy the day. W will say you are controlling her. Somehow, while walking around enjoying the sunshine, you managed to control her. smile

Originally Posted by Rockon
She has not started paying child support yet.

Do you and her have an agreement? Either proposed, drafted, negotiated, signed, to be signed, whatever? Is she in the arrears of child support?

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