She has surgery coming up next week and is apparently trying to get as much time with her AP as possible. She has worked remotely and/or taken days off this week. From what I can see she hasn't done much work at all. She hasn't been in her office either, as far as I know. She just disappears whenever she wants, saying "I'm going out" or nothing at all.
On two occasions, she has turned our outside security camera off. I can tell because this shows in the app when I open it. Once was late at night, to presumably disguise when she came home. (I woke up in the middle of the night and was able to figure out when she came in based on the last time stamp from the camera, which was mysteriously on again).
A three hour gap also showed up in the records while I was at work. I suspect she is bringing him to the house while I am out.
I know S14 notices her lack of presence. He has asked me where she is and I simply reply that I don't know. We have to handle meals for ourselves, as she rarely prepares anything for either of us anymore. The last time she cooked something was about a week ago. Before that I don't remember.
Is there anything I can do to handle this better when he asks? Her animosity toward me is one thing, and I don't care whether she cooks for me or not, but to me this shows tremendous disrespect for S14.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
