yea I honestly feel like she isnt seeing anyone else. I know I could be naive in thinking that but just have a feeling she isnt
Look, I’m no DB veteran, but I’ve been around here for quite a while now.
The number of times there has been an affair person (AP) involved - hundreds.
The number of times there has been a AP involved when the OP came along and said “I genuinely don’t think I there’s someone else” - hundreds.
The number of times there hasn’t been a AP - maybe 1 or 2. Total. That’s in four years I’ve been here.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. But despite you thinking you know your wife better than anyone else, it’s almost a dead certainty there’s someone else. Chances they haven’t been intimate - pretty slim.
The sleeping on a girlfriend’s couch because she’s stressed - makes it a total certainty IMHO.
Women are monkey branchers. They’re pretty unlikely to cut the cord until they think have a better option.
Just to give you some insight - my EXW was having an affair with one of the Dad’s from our son’s soccer team. Meanwhile she was going to church every week. This is the level of deceit involved when it comes to affairs.
One of the keys to successful DBing is to set your expectations of other people very, very low.
