I am focused on my priorities and facing my fears. And it is going well. It’s not easy but it is right and it’s important and there is a lot riding on me following through with my purpose.
Return to work: successful, gradual and sustained. I am limiting some of my other activities and potential good distractions (late night sports and socializing, extra volunteering, extra family stuff)
Finances: frugal efficient spending on groceries and some communal meals etc. Retirement planning, investing ongoing. Priority to keep and look after house, live within means and avoid debt.
Home: fall prep of house and yard
Family: advocacy and support for youngest kids, support and connection with eldest D and GD, positive healthy R with eldest S, great connections with extended family. Space and detachment with respect to W and her family
Legal: L to ensure fair treatment and protection of family assets and S’s needs
Health: weights, boxing, running and hiking, lots of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, vitamin supplements, preventative health care, stress management and healthy sleep habits
Relationships/social: connected and active in faith community, tight circle of friendships with respected men, socializing with circle of new friends (dance, hiking, coffee) outside of family
Attraction: looking good (wardrobe, grooming), positive realistic frame of mind, outgoing confidence, being active with what I need to focus on instead of available to W, decisive
