The withdraw is killing me. he was crying a lot and wanting to move forward for about two months and talking to me a lot. now the last two weeks he is super withdrawn. he will make connection with me and his family on his terms but if we call or txt him for anything it is quite evident that we are an inconvenience. He did start BuSpar this last week so hopefully that will help. He hasn't blown up a lot but has done some baiting into arguments that I haven't fed into at all. but I feel more hated now than I did when he was gone and in a full on relationship with his OW. he is reconnecting on so many ways and helping around the house and will talk about future but then he will turn around and just turn into teenager that hides and lets you know with his energy how annoyed he is to be around you. I read that more marriages end in withdraw just because of the pushing they do so I am trying to stay strong but this [censored]!!!!!!

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