ABSOLUTELY left awhile ago!! Its all emotional here for her and she has to feel that and work through it herself.
Originally Posted by Sunflyer
My W has OM. I have not confronted her with it, but she made it ridiculously easy to find the evidence. Perhaps, subconsciously, she wants me to know, because that will make it easier to walk away from her. I am certain that she is aware that I've figured it out.
dang SF, Sorry to hear that. Tough call to handle. I know I would walk away. I've been there. but each situation is different and different rules apply. Why do you hold on?
Originally Posted by Sunflyer
You will continue to have feelings for a while, regardless of which way this goes. They may seem contradictory, which is normal. Do I still feel attraction for my wife? Some, yes. Do I love her? Not this version of her. The old W who was honest I could love easily.
Yes sir!!! Feelings will be there for awhile I know. Not sure how long it will take to heal. I think its more of a feeling you get and work through and know when you are there. I do still love my wife as well. I agree that I dont love this version of her. the old W was happy and free and loving. This new W is just pushing anything to get her agenda met while wrecking everything along the way. Still talks like she is caring though. Saying things like "Im sorry you have to go through this alone" or "I know this is tough and I hope you are managing as best as possible". Like WTF! just pulling heart strings. Showing you care but actions speak louder than words at this point. Not even sure how to respond to her anymore when she says things. It gets too emotional for me to respond, so I try to use logical answers but cant use logic with an illogical person right now!
