Not even sure where to start

[Sunflyer]

Lots of people come here saying the same thing.

It’s very unlikely that 5 years down the road she says “This was a big mistake.” Never pin your hopes on that. You need to work out how to be okay with that never happening. My ex-wife’s life is a train wreck. I’m about to remarry to the love of my life, and she’s sleeping on the floor at her parent’s house and can’t make ends meet. Do you think she’s come along and said “I stuffed up, leaving you was a big mistake!”? Hell no!! She’s now on social media claiming she was a victim of domestic violence to try and justify her decision. Says she loved me but had to leave 😂

People who break marriages will have a narrative. They will most likely double down and strengthen it, not take responsibility for their actions.
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Best response “You sound worried about the future. I know I’m going to be great no matter what 😎”

DL:

Read this over and over. Let it sink in. One of the most important things you'll hear.

Most of us play these kinds of scenarios out in our head at one time or another.

It is highly unlikely she will admit error. As Kind says, she has her story and she is going to stick to it, even if she ends up riding the highway to hell (apologies to AC/DC).