Decisions made by our brain come from two places - either emotions or reasoning.
Every time you make a decision about her or potentially interacting with her or her boss of friends or family, you need to ask yourself this question:
Is it the emotional (short term) or logical reasoning (long term) part of my brain which is has decided this is a good idea?
This is definitely emotional reactions I have. Her bosses husband is the one I asked. Me and him were close through the years. It was dumb and I feel like an idiot because that is NOT the person I want to be or become. I have a hard time keeping the emotional part from overrunning my logical part. I'm an engineer by trade so my brain is more detailed thinking and trying to solve problems. This is not that and can't be approached by that. It's a emotional thing and I struggle on those right now. Def need to work in this area.
