Yes, Kind, I really love just getting lost in the work. Heading out to do some more work, hopefully, will sneak a workout in, and then off to a funeral today. I'm still a bit stuck on the above issue:

Part of me wants to pick an attorney from the three I met so that I can tell W that, if she decides to move forward, have her attorney send the paperwork right to my attorney, rather than having a process server try to "serve" me at home or work. I'd like to avoid directly handling as much as possible. At the same time, that somewhat contradicts the thoughts DnJ previously shared about not "promoting divorce" and letting W come to me. I'd appreciate your thoughts, fellow DBers.

Thoughts? Part of me likes continuing to let W initiate everything related to a potential D. The other part of me just wants things to progress. But, I know it is a marathon and not a sprint. Take care, all.