Trying to string together a few positive days. Got a ton of work done outside. I love getting lost in hard labor! Mapping out things I'll need to do if W moves forward. Building out a budget, scoping out living arrangements, checking with my daughter to make sure she is doing as well as possible. Part of me wants to pick an attorney from the three I met so that I can tell W that, if she decides to move forward, have her attorney send the paperwork right to my attorney, rather than having a process server try to "serve" me at home or work. I'd just like to avoid directly handling as much as possible. At the same time, that runs somewhat counter to thoughts DnJ previous shared about not "promoting divorce" and letting W come to me. I'd appreciate your thoughts, fellow DBers. Thanks in advance and I hope you all have a relaxing, positive day.