Heard through the grapevine that W is basically blaming me for everything. She's telling anyone that will listen how stressed she is about money, finding a place to live, all the house showings, car having issues, driving son to some practices, etc, and that I'm 'not helping at all'.
Of course she is. Her negative emotions toward you are driving everything she says and does. My W is doing the exact same thing. I am the worst thing that ever crawled out from under a rock, according to her. Yet she publicly says how much "respect" she has for me.
In fact, she has so much respect that she bought our son Taco Bell for dinner yesterday and then spent most of the night with her new boyfriend.
As for your previous post, it isn't odd at all that she isn't showing remorse. That's because she feels none. She is convinced that she is right on everything and you are fully in the wrong.
Yep, it's amazing isn't it. Funny too, a mutual friend also told me that she just got her student loans forgiven. $170,000. I/we paid on that for 6 years, and I begged her to look into that forgiveness program. She never did. Of course it coincidentally worked out for her that she got it forgiven just in time for the divorce to be final, meanwhile I'll still get to pay on mine!
I assume that her mentality will never change. Not that I care much. But when we move out, if she struggles in any way, shape, or form, it'll be my fault somehow. If she does great, it'll be because she made the decision to divorce.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
