Originally Posted by Pattnee5
They are your truths and that’s all that matters. I now tell anyone who asks me that “H walked out on me, didn’t want to sort his issues out or whatever issues he had within our marriage and is moving to the other side of the world “ blatant true facts.

I like this! The WAS says the blame is only ours. They say vicious things about us. They beat us down and try to make us feel inferior.

I haven't discussed my situation with coworkers, friends, etc. Eventually it will have to come out. And when that time comes, my blatant true facts will be:

1. I didn't give up on the marriage. In fact, I encouraged repairing it.

2. I didn't file for divorce.

3. I didn't take up with another woman while still living with her. She started with another man.

As you say, "blatant true facts."


Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023