Still no offers on the house. It looks like we missed the buying frenzy by about 2 weeks, and now nothing's moving. Ugh.
Heard through the grapevine that W is basically blaming me for everything. She's telling anyone that will listen how stressed she is about money, finding a place to live, all the house showings, car having issues, driving son to some practices, etc, and that I'm 'not helping at all'. Of course her cheerleaders are all saying 'that's why you're leaving, he's worthless! Stay strong girl, you got this!'.
This has been a constant theme throughout our relationship, and something I won't miss. She creates a problem, then blames me when I can't/won't fix it. Like, does she really think I should be helping her find a house/apartment, fixing her car, doing everything with our son (like I always did) so she can 'relax' with a few bottles of wine (like always)? I'm sure she'll think it's 'unfair' when we do move out. I"ll have 10 guys helping me, and she'll complain that she has nobody to help her.
Anyway, I'm a bit of a mess emotionally still, but pretty much laser focused on getting a house as soon as we get an agreement on ours. I've looked at a few places, have a few I really like, and filled out preliminary mortgage application paperwork. Just my luck though that I'll be buying a house (and trying to sell) when interest rates are at an all time high. lol
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
