No Definitely no relationship talk. he is being nicer our last big monstering was the weekend he moved came back. He left in a rage and then came back 45 minutes later and acted like nothing happened the next day. I am really trying to just drop the rope but it is so hard when it involves my kids and my life. but I am trying to look at progress on the larger term instead of day to day. and that helps. We are definitely better today than we were two months ago. and he is acting better also. but the avoidance and withdrawal are so hard to deal with.
