Thank you for the positive words Kind18, Sun & Pattnee. This forum is everything & makes such a difference if you have the courage to follow the advice.
Sun- I've read your thread & sorry you're still in the thick of it but sounds like you're doing all the right things. I hope good times are ahead for you.
Kind - thank you. You've got a perfect combo of harsh when it needs to be said but in the background of lots of care & encouragement. You've made a huge difference to this woman's life.
Pattnee - keep hanging on in there girl. Our paths are so similar. I reckon by the time your H starts to realise where he's at, you'll have moved even further. H came to see me today & I do still care deeply. He still pulls at my heart strings but equally I know it would be the absolute wrong thing to open the door for him. He needs to do the inner child work otherwise it's just groundhog day.
