It's crazy to think, but your 48 yr old H and my 30 yr old W are so similar. Falling into traps set in their childhood (my W due to her mom. learned her personality and "coping" mechanisms which are self destructive with a facade of being selfless and helping others). Us having zero power to stop or fix it.

I like tattoos but have never been slightly interested in getting one myself. But last night I had a dream I had a cool colorful tattoo on my forearm and am a little sad it was only a dream haha


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23