I need help now that he is coming home

[Pattnee5]

Hi Jessie welcome. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this.MLC truly can be a horrible thing, and there is alot of damage that gets done. Your situation certainly sounds hard with him moving back In, has he started any R talks? I think them coming out of their crisis is hard and a long journey too, and you need to be prepared for the ride. I can’t speak of it as I feel my H is still stuck in his. But I know you said about the day before your wedding anniversary this happened. To be honest I think part of the MLC process is the people we knew cease to exist. The kind hearted generous H that we once knew become full blown selfish a/holes. I know mine did. He BD me a week before Christmas ( and I LOVE Christmas and he knows that), he told the kids and moved out 1 week before our S12 bday, the day of what was suppose to be our 16 wedding anniversary he decides to call a lawyer and then tells me “we are definitely done and there is no hope “
The MLC monster is a horrible one. I hope someone can shed some light on what to do with your H considering he’s come crawling home with his tail between his legs