Hi MA what a great update I am so happy to hear you are doing well. So sad about your H though and his continual spiral. I feel you helped me more than I helped you to be honest. You truly were an inspiration. Considering our BD was so close together and we seem to be walking a similar path. So happy to read you are in a good place. It’s funny, like you when I first came here I just desperately wanted H back, wanted to fix everything cried was miserable was a mess. I never thought I would be where I am today. Today for the first time I thought “hey I am happy” and I have been for a while now. Meanwhile I look at my H and he doesn’t look happy, doesn’t act happy. He’s still wallowing in his gloomy loft with his sweatpants and bottle. It’s funny to think they did the damage and did the BD because as I was told “ I just wasn’t happy for a while”. I bet if someone asked him now if he’s happy he will say no. I reckon he’s worse Keep being happy And being with the kids. Family is everything.
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
