This is the recipe. You have to get to the point where she starts to questions herself and begin to think she is going to lose you, perhaps to a better woman.
You do this all silently, without peacocking and looking back to see if she's noticing. In essence, you start to truly move on with your life. If there's a chance this thing will turn around, this is usually when it will happen.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
