I’ll add, at its heart, it’s about shifting your focus from one’s spouse and all the wild ongoing on their situation.
When our lives blow up we all focus on our spouse. We turn our attention upon them, fully. Begging, pleading, clinging, grasping, watching for signs, and on and on. A pretty normal response. And with such focus, we invariably elevate our spouse.
When you place your spouse upon a pedestal, you are always looking up to them, and they are looking down at you.
What one focuses upon becomes larger.
Hence, focus on you and your kids. Focus on your life.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
