Yea I can get ahold of her phone if I wanted to and check things out. Would have to see though. She may not just let me have it like she did before. She used to when we were together. She does text while she is around me but has one of those privacy screens cause hers cracked and my daughter had a spare one. So i think I would have to time it while she is in the shower or something along those lines. SHe does still leave it lying around at times though. That will crush me I think more to find out if there is OP. But I feel like it may help me close the door easier. Plus it may have implications in the D with the lawyer.
Yeah I am not telling you to snoop. I am just saying how she treats her phone is typically a good indicator.