Don’t sneak onto her phone while she’s showering, that’s not having free access. You cannot take back things you do or stuff you say. Have faith, all things will be revealed in time. Snooping will just hurt. And you do have to live with yourself.
Originally Posted by dleague
Plus it may have implications in the D with the lawyer.
In my locale. Nope.
Affairs, cheating, and such have zero impact upon divorce. None. Zilch.
The law only sees custody; assets and liabilities; and splits according to the formulas.
Only proven unsafe behaviour/lifestyle for the children affects custody. Affairs are not in that category.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
