So thinking on this a little more about if there is an OM. There may be considering the facts. She is pushing the issue of getting the D done and over. She is willing to pay for it. She is taking less on alimony. She is giving up alot on the house personal property. She is giving up alot financially when settling. She isnt even trying to repair what we have. She said she is the type of person that likes to be in a relationship. I actually asked her the other day out of respect for us that she wait until we get our papers signed before she gets in another relationship. She told me that she is going to do what she wants to do and I dont get a say in it. Stepping back and looking at the bigger picture, she may very well have OM on the side. Dunno how far its gotten but could be started already possibly. I feel like there isnt but not sure if its just me being naïve to the fact because of my feelings for her. She doesnt hide her phone or anything like that and tells me her plans. Just high level observations here. When I asked her she said no and she doesnt have time for that. SHe that is not her focus. She just wants the D over with and behind her she said. So not sure if she wants it all behind her so she can move on or with OM. who knows.
