-be the man you are meant to be -if you have put things on the back burner for some day in the future because of your marriage or your W, the time is NOW. That doesn’t mean you have to have a MLC, that would be unhealthy. But invest time, money and energy on making your life the kind that you want to live. -determine and clarify your core values and live them -you were going to travel in ‘25, do that - but start in ‘23 -find and make your friends, friends that have shared values and who make you better and who challenge you with compassion and honesty not judgment.
I def plan on traveling more. Will probably have a place to stay around here for the next year to help my daughter out here and get her footing. And gives me time to get my priorities lines up and heal from this D.
Still trying to figure out what it means to be the man I want to be. I've always been a provider and that has been my mission and focus. So not even sure what my focus is now. I know its on myself but I have to figure out myself what that looks like.
I do have my friends to look out for and meet up with. I just need to reach out an make that attempt. They have been on the back burner for so long while i was providing for my family and building my life. My focus has been on others for so long that I havent focused on myself and making myself happy and what that looks like. Still trying to figure that out and will do .... in time!
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