Talked with a close friend whose W has similar issues with social anxiety. He recommended against proactively sharing a property division workbook because he didn't see a clear way it would help me. Talking with two attorneys today to make sure that, while I'm DBing, I'm also getting some balanced perspective to protect myself and my daughter if things continue towards D. So many thoughts running through my head: why is W so unwilling to work things out? I hear her saying she's "not cut out for relationships" and see how much she works to avoid conversations about sensitive topics or conflict. My brain says to keep DBing. My heart just wants to say "Let's fix this!" but I know it would lead me down a currently cheeseless tunnel. I hate these ups and downs.
